Ever had that deflating moment when you've put so much thought into a gift, you’re so excited to gift it, but you only get a polite "thanks" in response? Or maybe you're the one who feels a bit awkward when someone showers you with presents when all you really want is a good heart to heart? Well, hold onto your latte, because we're about to dive into the world of love languages, and trust us, these are essential to understand for any relationship!
Remember that time your best friend seemed genuinely thrilled about a quick "thinking of you" text, while your partner lights up at a surprise hug? That's love languages in action! We all have different ways of expressing and receiving love, and understanding these differences can completely transform your relationships.
These lovely humans thrive on heartfelt words. They're the ones who save every birthday card and keep screenshots of meaningful texts. For them, written or spoken expressions of love aren't just nice, they're necessary!
Perfect for them:
🎁 A letterbox gift with a personalised message (because who doesn't love finding love on their doorstep?)
🎁 Cards with heartfelt messages
🎁 Little notes hidden in unexpected places (bonus points for cute paper)
These clingy cuties value your presence more than presents. They're all about creating memories and sharing experiences, even if it's just a cosy night in with Netflix (in our new TreatBox pyjamas of course!).
Show them love with:
🎁 Activity-based gifts you can enjoy together
🎁 Care packages for a perfect movie night in
🎁 Something that creates a shared experience, even from across the country, cocktails over Facetime anyone?
For these sweethearts, nothing says "I love you" quite like taking something off their to-do list or making their life easier in some way. They notice the little things you do, and it means the world to them.
Win their hearts with:
🎁 Self-care packages that help them relax
🎁 Practical gifts that make their day-to-day easier
🎁 Ready-to-go treats that save them time and effort
These are your natural-born cuddlers! While this love language might seem tricky to translate into gifts, there are still plenty of ways to make them feel special.
Consider sending:
🎁 Super-soft blankets for cosy vibes
🎁 Stress-relief items like massage tools or warming masks
🎁 Comfort items that feel like a calming hug
Contrary to what some might think, this isn't about materialism; it's about the thoughtfulness behind the gift. This love language is about cherishing physical symbols of love and appreciation.
Make their day with:
🎁 Carefully curated gift boxes
🎁 Surprise treats unique to their interests that show you're thinking of them
The thing is, most of us aren't just one love language. We're more likely to be a lovely mix of a few of them, and that's perfectly okay! The key is understanding both your own primary love languages and those of the people you care about.
Remember:
- It's not about changing who you are
- Different relationships might need different approaches
- The thought really, really, really does count!
Not sure about someone's love language?
Pay attention to:
- How they show love to others (we often give what we want to receive)
- What they complain about in relationships ("We never spend time together" vs "You never tell me how you feel")
- What makes their eyes light up with joy
Whether you're celebrating Valentine's or Galentine's Day this year (or both!), understanding love languages can help you choose the perfect way to show your appreciation. From thoughtfully curated gift boxes for the gift lovers to our brand new range of dreamy pyjamas, The Comfort Collective, there's a way to speak everyone's language of love.
This time of year is all about making the people in your life feel truly seen and appreciated. And sometimes, a perfect little TreatBox might just be the translator you need!
Ready to speak their language? Check out our Valentine's and Galentine’s collection!
